3rd Date

Please notice that date is no longer in quotes. Its official this time he said we were on our 3rd date :-) I sent him a text message on Monday, Feb. 5, 2007 asking him if he was free to hang out on Tuesday or Wednesday. His response was he free today or Wednesday.

Now I over analyze everything but for him to suggest Monday when it wasn't even an option meant to me that he really kinda would like to see me. I mean if I wanted to see someone I would add Monday to the list. If I was kinda indifferent I would have just said Tuesday won't work but we can chill on Wednesday. And if I was not interested I would have said neither would work so I definitely think by adding in Monday he likes me :-)

So I text him back: Well tonight at 20:00 or Wed at 16:30 or both! He text be me back: See you tonight. I had class on Monday so I knew I wouldn't be able to cook. I arrive home around 7:15 and was in a rush to shower and straighten up a little before he arrived. At 7:50 I was still in mid-hustle but almost done when the phone rang...It was John telling me he had just woken from a nap and would be over shortly. Relieved I was able to slow down my motion and by the time he arrived I was ready to go.

He came in the door limping and we hugged...It's still a little awkward because I think we both are still trying to play it self. I don't know how into me he is nor do I let me know how really into I am. I would have loved to kiss him we came in but I left it at the hug to be on the safe side. He explained he hurt his foot wrestling with his boyfriend the other not. I told him I was sorry to her that and hoped it felt better soon. We left the apartment and I drove us to TGIFriday's. We were seated quickly and started to converse.

I had a frustrating a day at work and told him I was going to have a drink and that he had to have one to. He suggested the pomegranate margarita frozen for me and on the rocks for him..so that's what we had. We ordered food and he ordered another drink a Long Island ice tea which I hoped he would because I was definitely feeling a buzz and wanted him to have one also...and he got one too. Somehow the conversation turned to the topic of sex and then love...which I suppose is appropriate since often that's the order they happen in a relationship. Needless to saw the conversation was quite interesting. We finished our meal, I paid and we went back to my place.

Upon entering the door and shutting it behind us we stood in the middle of the living room in a tight embrace. Rubbing each other backs me lightly and playfully biting his neck him running his hands up my sides and tickling me. When we broke the embrace I asked would he rather watch TV in the living or the bedroom. He said I should choose so I started walking to the bedroom. I tried to make it seem like I was going back there to change clothes which I did but I truly wanted lay down with like we did last time. He also needed to use my laptop to get some information about his favorite songstress Toni Braxton. As he lay in my bed using the Internet I changed from my jeans and sweater into some basketball shorts and a wife beater. Once done I laid in the bed next to him.

We talked, hugged, looked at pictures of his family and just enjoyed each other's company. We kissed several times just pecks on the lips no tongue though he did make the comment I was giving him dry pecks. We rubbed each other bodies and I one point he was lifting my point seeming like he was about to like my nipples but he didn't :-( I still think we are feeling each other out. We were both definitely aroused down there if you know what I mean. He told me I was teasing him and I said I'm not. around 11:45pm he decided he had to get home since he has to be up around 5:45am. I walked him to the door and we kissed again before he left and i told him to call me when he got home...which he did.

So that was Monday and today is Wednesday. In the text I sent on Monday I said I wanted to see him both Monday and today Wednesday and guess what! The kid gets his wish...yesterday while I was at the gym he text me telling me what a great time he had and I said I had a great time to and can't wait to do it again. He said he felt the same way so I suggested he come over tonight for dinner. He said he would :-) I'm making lemon pepper shrimp, baked potatoes, and salad. I hope the date goes even better and maybe I'll get a little tongue. One can always dream :-)